Thank You
- March 12th, 2010
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- By Diane
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We are overwhelmed by the love and support of our family and friends. Your thoughts, phone calls, emails, and prayers have made such an impact on both of us and have certainly made it easier to move on. I know without a doubt that the power of faith and prayer are real–and the reason that I am still here today
To make it brief (I apologize to my family who has heard this over and over), these are the events that took place in the last couple of days:
I went in for my scheduled surgery (D&E) Tuesday morning with the expectation to go home right afterward and return to work the next day–just like I did with my last miscarriage. However, I continued to hemorrhage in the recovery room for several more hours. The doctors decided to put me back into the surgery room to see if they could stop the bleeding; if unsuccessful, they would have had to do a hysterectomy. What the doctors soon found out was that I virtually had no clotting factors in my blood prior to entering the operating room. It’s something called DIC that can occur when a fetus passes away, eliminating the clotting factors in the mother’s blood. I was an accident waiting to happen. Unfortunately, surgery was a recipe for disaster and I ended up losing half of my total blood volume. Thankfully, my doctors were truly inspired and were successful in stopping the blood and saving my uterus. I was given blood transfusions all through out that night with Fernando by my side, and was released from the hospital Thursday with a second chance at life.
I am just so sad when I think about all that has happened, but I hope that some day, we will get to hold these little babies in our arms that we never got to meet in this life. And it will be a great reunion.

Diane – you are so strong/brave to go through this & then write about it. We will keep you guys in our prayers. And I am so, so glad for doctors who care & know when to follow a hunch. Glad that you are on the road to recovery.
I’m so glad that those doctors where inspired and able to save you and your future children. I’m sorry that you and Fernando had to go throught this trial. However, you both are amazing, strong people who can make it through something like this. Thanks for being a great example of trusting in the Lord. You amaze me. We love you and can’t wait to see you!
We are so sorry and have been thinking about you. You’ve been in every prayer.
Oh Diane. That is so scary. I’ve been thinking about you a lot this week. What a terrifying experience. I’m so glad they didn’t have to do a hysterectomy.
I hope your recovery goes smoothly. I’m so sorry again for your loss.
What a terrifying ordeal!! I’m so glad that you had competent doctors who were able to take care of you and save you from having to have a hysterectomy. You are in our prayers! Thanks for the update.
We love you Diane and Fernando, Our prayers have truly been answered knowing that you are recovering and that you have felt the comfort and power of the Atonement during such a hard trial.
He will always comfort us when we are faced with difficult trials. We know this with out a doubt!
I’m so glad you’re doing well. You guys are amazing, our prayers are with you!
You have been in our prayers since we’ve heard. Lots of love sent from the whole Clinger family.
I can’t imagine going through what you two have gone through these last few weeks! You will be in my prayers and hope you can heal both physically and emotionally soon…hang in there!
Oh my goodness. I literally cried reading your blog. I am so sorry you two had to go through this. We are thinking of you and will keep you in our prayers. I can’t imagine what you must feel after an ordeal like this. We wish you both the best and hope for a brighter future.
Lots of love and hugs for you! So sorry for your loss and thankful for doctors who know what they’re doing!
Just heard (read) the news. I didn’t even know you were pregnant in the first place! Anyway, I’m sorry that had to happen and am glad to hear you made it out okay. Life is very unpredictable. Keep your heads up and good luck in the future.
We love you guys and continue to send thoughts and prayers of comfort your way.
I had no idea all of that happened. That must have been so scary. I hope you’re doing better!
Diane, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you are feeling better!
Oh my goodness. I literally cried reading your blog. I am so sorry you two had to go through this. We are thinking of you and will keep you in our prayers. I can’t imagine what you must feel after an ordeal like this. We wish you both the best and hope for a brighter future.
Dear Diane,
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I am Fernando’s cousins’ stepmom(Bob,Chris,Val,Karen and Tim). I had DIC 21 years ago after giving birth to my first child. It was a scary time. I had 14 units of blood transfusion. Ten days later I left the hospital with an open C-Section incision. I’ve had 2 more children since then (all scheduled C-Section) and I’m so grateful for modern medical technology and for the power of Priesthood blessing. I can’t believe that you went home 2 days later…Heavenly Father certainly was watching over you. Take care.
Wow, thank you so much commenting. It’s so nice to hear stories from other people who have gone through similar situations. I think I would have gone mad if I had to stay in the hospital that long!